Is Lovebombing Always Manipulative Or Are There Exceptions?

The reality is that many people do not want to be alone and they are willing to say whatever it takes to get a significant other

Recently I have been asked if it is possible for someone to lovebomb another person without meaning for it to be manipulative and without having negative intentions?

I believe that they can.

Now, before you are confused as to why I am tackling this subject it’s because almost everything that speaks to love-bombing is around the negative aspects of love-bombing usually used by a narcissist in conjunction with other abusive/controlling behaviors.

I try to always keep an open mind and I have both observed and learned about other reasons as to why someone may use love bombing at the beginning stages of dating.

The reality is that many people do not want to be alone and they are willing to do whatever it takes to get a significant other.

When I was in college I dated someone that exuded love bombing behavior. The moment that we started dating he moved extremely fast. There were elaborate dates, gifts, he said that he wanted to marry me, all within a couple of months.

Eventually, I had to take a step back and realized that he had a ton of insecurities that were making it difficult to be in a relationship with him.

Shortly after we broke up he married one of his close “girlfriends” and I realized that he just wanted to be with someone and it didn’t seem to…

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