Loving Yourself Before Others Do

Dedicated to a precious friend …

It shows through mostly everything that you do. Whether it is the self-deprecating jokes, criticizing yourself for every mistake, or being completely crushed by other people’s perception of you.

People often distance themselves from insecure people (unconsciously), because they project to others that they aren’t worth much. When you shower yourself with love, people will start gravitating towards you because they feel your energy.

In addition to this, people will change how they interact with you. You are no longer worried how others might perceive you because you have validation from yourself — the only place where it matters.

You will begin to notice how you are no longer afraid to approach people, but instead you are now someone that people WANT to talk to.

When you dislike yourself as a person, it becomes really hard to find joy or happiness in external things.

As disliking yourself shows through every area in your life, loving yourself will reflect that as well. It is not only very essential to having a deeper connection with yourself, but also improves your relationships with others drastically.

When you love yourself, your approach to any situation will change.

You will naturally just feel the difference.

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Understand that self-love has no conditions. Even if it seems impossible sometimes, you need to love yourself through every phase of your life.

When you truly love yourself, you will feel it from the core.

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